The day after my husband proposed to me we picked our wedding date. I had always dreamed of a big wedding which included our family and friends. We were engaged on Thanksgiving, August was the month set for our wedding. As our plans began to take shape I truly believed they were seamless. But as I am sure you are aware the best laid plans can sometimes falter. My first struggle was with the wedding planner. Without seeking references I hired her. She was a total disappointmen